The tie parents - sons assures the necessary support of the parents to the child for his years of development and supports the personality development of the child.

When the newborn baby is pathological or premature, the situation is more difficult, since there is frequent the appearance of an initial reaction of rejection to the newborn baby, generally at unconscious level, which usually follows of a position of over-protection, which is not just as the normal tie. The support attentions help the parents to minimize his anxiety and promote the tie process.

When the parents must be separated from his son during days (which happens, for example, when the baby is taken to the incubator, and the new mother cannot rock it, nurse it or rock it in his arms), it is very possible that there is not established the development of the normal ties (for it, in the modern UVIs neonatales, up he cheers the parents to visit the newborn baby often). The tie parents - sons is reinforced if the parents can feed, bathe and change to his son, and if the mother can give the breast to his sick, enclosed son when initially it should feed for probe. This stimulates the contact skin to skin, the sensation of "normality" inside the possible thing, and facilitates that the newborn baby and the new parents learn to know each other mutually, and to be recognized by the tact, the smell, the voice...

Newborn babies with malformations. When a newborn baby presents a birth defect, the parents must see it together as soon as possible after the birth, independently of his medical state. It is necessary to obtain as soon as possible the comprehension and the acceptance of the state of the proper son.

Children with chronic incapabilities. The physical processes that affect the daily activities for months, or are a cause of repeated periods of hospitalization (asthma, cerebral palsy, forked thorn, fibroses quística, cardiopatías congenital, diabetes, renal insufficiency, epilepsy, cancer, hemophilia, blindness, deafness, juvenile arthritises...), as a whole, affect more than 10 % of all the children. These children will have in common:

• suffering pain and discomfort,
• to see his growth and braked development,
• to be submitted to frequent hospitalizations and ambulatory visits,
• to support painful and annoying treatments,
• not to be able to take part in the activities of his partners,
• to need multiple daily care,
• to continue a course at first unpredictable.

For the family, the chronic incapability of a child represents:

• to lose the "ideal son",
• not to deal with other brothers,
• major expenses in money and time,
• turn wrapped in the complications of the welfare systems (for example, social security, benefit societies),
• to lose opportunities (for example, a mother who cannot resume his labor activity)
• social isolation

A stress like that can finish with the family, especially if there exist already other conjugal or familiar problems of base. It is probable that even the most capable parents need help.

This help usually comes from the doctor of primary assistance, the infirmary personnel and the associations of affected and neither from his relatives, who do that the child and his parents do not feel alone, nor strangers between the people who does not know or does not understand his problem or his psychological state. The associations of these types offer psychological help in the shape of therapy, in some cases.

Certain circumstances can favor the securing of other types of helps, of social character, to help in the handling of the child at home, or educationally to favor his insertion in the normal school world, or when this is not possible so that they could gain access to centers specially designed to help them.

The results to a great extent will depend on the grade of ripeness of the family, and on the comprehension and the acceptance on the part of the whole family of the state of the child, so that normal relations and the child could settle as soon as possible, although it is different from others, is in a similar environment to of the others.

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