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HOW IS IT EVIDENT?
The essential characteristic of this disorder is a general and excessive need that they deal with one, which causes a behavior of submission and adherence, in addition to fears of separation. The dependent and submissive behaviors are destined to provoke attentions and arise from a perception of one himself as unable to work appropriately without the help of the others.
These individuals tend to be debits and to allow the others (often the only person) to take the initiatives and to assume the responsibility in the principal plots of his life. They usually have difficulties to express the disagreement with the others, especially of those on whom they depend, because they are afraid about losing his support and approval. For it hardly ever they show annoyance.
To these individuals it is very difficult to initiate projects because they lack confidence in himself. They are ready to surrender to what the others want although the demands are unreasonable, by it sometimes his relations are usually unbalanced. When it finishes an important relation (couple, death of the mother...) they look urgently for another relation that provides to them the care and the apoya who needs. There are symptoms that in small measurement would be normal as in very small children, it owes only to be considered to be a disorder in very extreme cases.
HOW ARE THESE SUBJECTS?
The subjects with disorder of the personality for dependency are usually very pessimistic and insecure, tend to minimize his capacities and his values. They take the criticism and the disapproval as tests of his uselessness. They think about how to be dominated by the others. They avoid labor responsibility positions and experience many anxiety at the time of taking a decision. Normally only they are related to the persons to whom his dependency is directed.
PREDOMINANCE
Many other cases seem to happen in women and it is one of the disorders met more frequency in the clinical institutions.
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