The basic recommendation on the sexual relations is that of its own serviceability. If his pregnancy studies with normality it is not necessary to modify or to interrupt his sexual habits. The coitus is not dangerous for the fetus in pregnancies of normal course. The fetus is much protected in his bag of amniotic liquid, and the only thing that he can share with you the pleasure is in the shape of endorfinas that the brain produces in very agreeable situations and that can be transmitted to the fetus across the blood. There is no relation it causes effect between the sex and the natural abortion during the first eight months of pregnancy.

In some women an increase of the libido happens during the pregnancy: the vagina becomes more flexible and it is better lubricated, the blood circulation sharpens the sensibility of the bosoms... The pregnancy induces to modifications of vascular, muscular and neurological type. But the hormonal explanation is not sufficient. The common project (the arrival of the baby) also can harden the relation of couple, who feels in entire merger during the sexual act.

If the woman or the man do not feel comfortable with the sex during the pregnancy he is an important tolerant being, to bear in mind that every person lives through the pregnancy of a form, with different fears. Many men feel that the penetration can hurt the baby. A thing is clear, the dialogue is something fundamental: absence of desire, fear of he without liking, technical problems due to your physical metamorphosis. Speak about everything what could alter your affectionate life. The pregnancy is only a stage and your couple life will return quickly to his normal course.

One of the things that is necessary to take care more that of custom it is the position during the act, since the classic one will stop being a commode as the belly is growing. The positions most recommended to support sexual relations without damage for the pregnant woman or the baby are the following ones:

• The man placed behind the woman
• Both knocked down sideways with the back of the woman given to the breast of the man
• The woman seated on the man

Although it is not easy to establish exact numbers, they has written that approximately 40 % of the pregnant women experiences a decrease of the sexual desire, 50 %, also brought near, does not experience outstanding changes and 10 % experiences an increase of the sexual desire.

The sex during the pregnancy must be avoided when there exists hemorrhage, genital infection, threatens of premature childbearing or plows of the bag. Some gynecologists dissuade it also if there have been previous abortions. If the hemorrhage was happening during the sexual act it is necessary to warn the doctor since it can be an alarm motive. In the cases of pregnancies gemelares, it is suitable not to practise sex with penetration during the animal last months of gestation.