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The first concept to be born in mind is that the child adopted as a couple stable and anxious to adopt it, does not differ in anything of the child whose parents are biological and share with him his genetic material. The development and the affective interaction are identical.
In the opinion of many pediatricians and psychologists, the adopted child must know the truth as soon as it is capable of understanding, at the moment of having use of reason, what probably will be before 4 years of age. This information is important to fit in accordance with his ripeness grade, so that it comprises it. When it is growing, and rises more specific questions, they must give him sincere answers, but without pressing the information flow.
The adopted children do not present any problem different from the children of the same age; nevertheless, if a child is adopted mayorcito, it is important to find out about his precedents, for propocionarle the help that it needs.
When another person foreign to the family asks, it is necessary to answer him also of sincere form.
If the child wants to meet his real parents, it him must allow to express his feelings and to make sure him that one will help him to look for them if he still wants to know them when it should be major. It is not necessary to push him to look for them, but neither it is necessary him to prevent to do it. Of gradual form, they do usually understand for themselves the difficulty of doing it, the legal problems that it implies, etc. In this sense, the legislation changes according to the different countries.
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